Technically, everything Mark Clattenburg said was factually correct
After the sporting world came out to condemn Mark Clattenburg’s comments regarding female referees and pregnancy, I can’t help but wonder if his remarks would have been received differently if they had come from a woman.
I don’t fully agree with the way Clattenburg delivered his sentiments, but if you listen back with the above in mind, he is onto something. Women do have difficult paths to tread in sport, and pregnancy does require a vast amount of time away from work, as it does with most jobs. Technically, everything he said was factually correct, so why did he come under such heavy scrutiny?
It’s so easy in today’s cancel culture to tar all men with the same brush. People can easily get swept along with the tide believing Clattenburg is just another man with old-fashioned views of women in sport. However, it could be argued that he was highlighting the very issues that women like me campaign for day in, day out. The only difference being that the individual delivering these observations was male, not female.
The anger towards Clattenburg should instead be redirected at the wider system, or lack of, that we have in place to support women who want to have a family alongside a successful sporting career.
Women are often told that they can ‘have it all’ when it comes to balancing a career and children, but just where does a career in women’s rugby fit into that?
There is so much information available for players who are returning to the game from injury, but when new mothers want to come back and play, little is available resource wise.
In the rugby world, you only have to look across to Jade Knight, a former Welsh International who called time on her international rugby career due to a lack of childcare support. Also, England International Shaunagh Brown recently admitted in an interview with the Rugby Journal that she wouldn’t know what her future would look like if she got pregnant, which speaks volumes about the current lack of support that we have in place for these women.
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This has to be taken in context, England Rugby players are on full-time contracts, so if there is confusion about the return to play and motherhood at that level, what does it mean for grassroots players?
It seems the level of confusion that is prevalent at the elite level regarding pregnancy is also apparent at the grassroots level too.
Abbey RFC player Annette Bevan started an Instagram account dedicated specifically to bringing awareness of balancing recovery from her emergency c-section with her journey back on the pitch playing Championship rugby.
In her most recent Instagram post, which has received an influx of support, she explained she spent the first week of her recovery frantically trying to google how to return to rugby after having an emergency c-section, to no avail.
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If you take a closer look at her return to play journey, it is quite something. Rugby is a physical sport, the very nature of it places huge demands on a player’s body. The brutal force of a tackle alone is enough to knock anyone off their feet, let alone someone who is postpartum. Annette speaks openly and honestly about the challenges she has faced in preparing her body to be back on the pitch which included working closely with a private women’s health physio.
Interestingly, Davina Catlin revealed in an interview with the Telegraph that she also paid for a private women’s health physio to aid her return to rugby. Does this mean that to have children and continue playing rugby, players should be expected to pay for private support? Who has the responsibility here? Is it on the clubs to provide this, or is it on the players?
The option to have children and play rugby should be available to everyone. It shouldn’t be assumed that once you have a child your whole life is over. The support and infrastructure should be in place for mums to return to play.
Speaking of support, the below photo of an Arklow RFC player carrying her two twin children onto the rugby pitch received a high level of praise on social media last week. Some claimed the photo was the publicity women’s rugby needed whilst others thought it highlighted how strong women are compared to men.
🙌 It’s all about team work @arklowrfc Women! These gorgeous twins supporting their mama during the warm up & game yesterday v @NewRossRFC2014 Dedication & passion of the players to keep the Women’s team going! The ‘behind the scenes’ raw truth of it#ArklowWomen #WomensRugby pic.twitter.com/1wTD4SA0cc
— Leinster WomensRugby (@LeinsterWomen) October 4, 2021
The attention this photo has gained across social media is great, don’t get me wrong, but women are only perceived as “strong” and “multitaskers” because they have to be. They don’t necessarily have the option of childcare whilst they attend rugby matches, often that responsibility falls at the feet of women. Also, sometimes depending on the age of the child, mums must be available to breastfeed, which is something which still, unfortunately, comes with a heavy amount of judgment and stigma.
Awareness is one thing, but actionable support is quite another. I would be interested to know how many rugby clubs actually support new mums in their return to play journey. Or more importantly, how many mums have had children and ceased to return to the game we all know and love because of these very barriers.
Yes, mums will face different challenges, but rugby is a sport for all, so isn’t it about time we started supporting everybody on and off the pitch?
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The rugby championship would be even stronger with Fiji in it… I know it doesen’t fit the long term plans of NZ or Aus but you are robbing a whole nation of being able to see their best players play for Fiji…. Every second player in NZ and AUS teams has Fijian surnames… shame on you!!! World rugby won’t step in either as France and England has now also joined in…. I guess where money is involved it will always be the poor countries missing out….
75 Go to commentsNo surprise there. How hard can it be to pick a ball off the ground and chuck it to a mate? 😂
2 Go to commentsSometimes people just like a moan mate!
1 Go to commentsexcellent idea ! rugby needs this 💪
9 Go to comments9 Brumbies! What a joke! The best performing team in Oz! Ditch Skelton for Swain or Neville. Ryan Lonergan ahead of McDermott any day! Best selection bolter is Toole … amazing player
12 Go to commentsI like this, but ultimately rugby already has enough trophies. Trying to make more games “consequential" might prove to be a fools errand, although this is a less bad idea than some others. Minor quibble with the title of the article; it isn’t very meaningful to say the boks are the unofficial world champions when it would be functionally impossible for the Raeburn trophy not to be held by the world champions. There’s a period of a few months every 4 years when there is no “unofficial” world champion, and the Raeburn trophy is held by the actual world champions.
9 Go to commentsIts a great idea but one that I dont think will have a lot of traction. It will depend on the prestige that they each hold but if you can do that it would be great. When Japan beat the Boks (my team) I was absolutely devestated but I wont deny the great game they played that day. We were outclassed and it was one of the best games of rugby I have seen. Using an idea like this you might just give the the underdog teams more of an opportunity to beat the big teams and I can absolutely see it being a brilliant display of rugby. They beat us because they planned for that game. It was a great moment for Japan. This way we can remove the 4 year wait and give teams something to aim for outside of World Cup years.
9 Go to commentsHi, Dave here. Happy to answer questions 🥰
9 Go to commentsDon’t think that headline is accurate. It’s great to see Aus doing better but I’m not sure they’ve shown much threat to the top of the table. They shouldn’t be inflating wins against the lousy Highlanders and Crusaders either.
3 Go to commentsSuch a shame Roigard and Aumua picked up long term injuries, probably the two form players in the comp. Also, pretty sure Clarke Dermody isn’t their coach. Got it half right though.
3 Go to commentsOh the Aussie media, they never learn. At least Andrew Kellaway is like “Woah, yeah it’s great, but settle down there guys” having endured years of the Aussie media, fans, and often their players getting ahead of themselves only to fall flat on their faces. Have the “We'll win the Bledisloe for sure this year!” headlines started yet? It’s simple to see what’s going on. The Aussie teams are settled, they didn't lose any of their major players overseas. The Crusaders and Chiefs lost key experienced All Blacks, and Razor in the Crusaders case, and clearly neither are anywhere near as strong as last year (The Canes and Blues would probably be 3rd & 4th if they were). The Highlanders are annually average, even more so post-Aaron Smith and a big squad clean out. The two teams at the top? The two nz sides with largely the same settled roster as last year, except Ardie Savea for the Canes. They’ve both got far better coaches now too. If the Aussies are going to win the title, this is the year the kiwi sides will be weakest, so they better take their chance.
3 Go to commentsThe World Cup has to be the gold standard, line in the sand. 113 teams compete for what is the opportunity to make the pool stages, and then the knockout games for the trophy. The concept is sound. This must have been the rationale when the World Cup was created, surely? But I’m all for Looking forward and finding new ways for the SH to dominate the NH into the future. The autumn series needs a change up. Let’s start by having the NH teams come south every odd year for the Autumn/Spring series games?
9 Go to commentsWhat’ll happen when the AI models of the future go back in time and try to destroy the AI models of the past standing in their way of certain victory?
41 Go to commentsThanks, Nick. We (Seanny Maloney, Brett and I) just discussed Charlie as a potential Wallaby No 8, and wondered if he has truly realised how big he is in contact (and whether he can add 5 kg w/o slowing down). Your scouting report confirms our suspicions he has the materiel. No one knows if he has the mentality (as Johann van Graan said this week about CJ, Duane and Alfie B) to carry 10-15 times a game.
57 Go to commentsHe would be a great player for the Stormers, Dobbo should approach the guy.
3 Go to commentsGood article. A few years back when he was playing for the Cheetahs, he was a quiet standout for exactly the seasons stated here. I occasionally get to see his games in the UK, and he has become a more complete player and in many ways like an Irish player. His work ethic is so suitable to the Leinster game. I wonder if Rassie would have him listed somewhere.
3 Go to commentsResults probably skewed by the fact that a few clubs have foreign fly halves in their 30s, but most teams have young English scrum halves. Results also likely to be skewed by the fact that many teams rely on centres and fullbacks to provide depth at 10, whereas they will need to stock a large number of specialist backup 9s.
2 Go to commentsI really get the sense that when all is said and done, the path of least resistance will end up being a merger of Wasps & Worcester that essentially kills the Worcester Warriors brand and sees Wasps permanently playing at Sixways. I’m not saying that’s what should happen or what I want to happen. I just think it’s the easiest rout to take and therefore, will be what happens. Wasps will definitely return to play first, and I suppose it all depends on if they can find support at Sixways. If people turn up and support Wasps in that community, at that ground, I bet they drop the Sevenoaks plan and just remain at Sixways. Under the radar but not totally unrelated, it looks as though London Irish are going to be brought back from the dead by a German consortium and look set to return, likely to the remade Championship. It’s set to have 12 clubs next season with 14 in 2025/26, what do you want to bet those extra 2 are Wasps and London Irish?
3 Go to commentsThe shoulder is a “joint” with multiple bones. You don’t “fracture” a shoulder, you fracture any one or more of the bones that make up a shoulder.
2 Go to commentsOh dear, bones too suspect to continue?
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