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'I keep myself to myself. I've been hurt in the past, especially with male father figures'
England star Kyle Sinckler says he prides himself on being his own father figure, after being ‘hurt’ in the past people he relied on.
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The prop, who has signed for Bristol Bears, spoke to the PA Agency in December about his pursuit of becoming the best prop in the world.
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Sinckler has had a sauna, ice bath, hot tub and oxygen chamber installed at his London home to enable him to recover as quickly as possible from training sessions and matches, as well as recruiting a team of personal support staff.
Among their number – which includes an osteopath and physio – is a chef who works at his club Harlequins and also caters for the England football team, offering Sinckler an insight into the methods that have worked for Kane, the Three Lions captain.
“I’m trying to do a few things at the moment that Harry Kane does with his chef,” the Maximuscle ambassador told the PA Media Group.
“My chef is Omar – he’s the Harlequins chef – and he does England football as well. I was picking his brain because I don’t want to be stagnant.
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“He said ‘well, Harry has these things that he feels help him’ so I was ‘right let’s give it a go’. It doesn’t taste great but if it makes me feel better then fine.
“Harry has a few little drinks like bone broth that help ligaments. Beetroot drinks with caffeine that he takes at half-time – I mix that with my pre-workout drink.
“His chef also makes some BCAA gummies which he takes. I’m trying them to see if it works. I pride myself on giving anything a go.
“I do all my own recovery bits at home. Everything is outside, so it’s not ideal in the winter but I’m out there every day.
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“I’ve taken control over everything in my career. It’s all been installed at my own expense because you can’t put a price on your career.
“Anything I can do to improve I will because you only get one shot at it. I’d only be watching TV anyway. Recovery for me is about relaxation and doing it in my own environment.
“Someone told me when I was younger that your best ability is availability because there’s no point being a great player but you’re never fit.
“So I pride myself on my availability to play – not only at the highest level but with England as well.
“In the last four years me and Dan Cole have been the English-qualified tighthead props who have been available for the most Premiership games.”
Sinckler’s all-consuming approach to preparation and recovery is a radical shift in thinking from the early phase of his career and has its roots in childhood trauma after being betrayed in his search for a father figure.
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“From the age of 18 to 22 I was bit of a joke – I was just lazy – but over the last three or four years I’ve looked at every little detail in my career,” he said.
“My biggest thing is to take control. If I’m being honest, I probably don’t trust anyone. It stems from my background because I’ve had a lot of issues to deal with.
“Recently I’ve been addressing those issues. I keep myself to myself. I’ve been hurt in the past, especially with male father figures.
“One thing I’ve really tried to implement is not relying on other people and being my own father figure.
“You do that by taking responsibility of your own career and life, being an honourable man.
“One thing I pride myself on is my word – it’s stronger than oak. If I say I’m going to do something for you, I’ll do it.
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“At the start of my career it was about proving people wrong, but I’ve realised that constantly trying to prove people wrong becomes draining. It’s not sustainable.
“I found I was listening too many people who aren’t my circle and now what motivates me is proving myself right.
“I’ve got massive self belief and I want to be the best in the world. What that means for me is always changing.
“You only truly know when you’ve hung up your boots and reflect on what you’ve achieved.”
* Kyle Sinckler is an ambassador of Maximuscle, the UK’s leading sports nutrition brand that’s helping him become the best in the world.
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Wow, that’s incredible. Great for rugby.
1 Go to commentsYou probably read that parling is going to coach the wallaby lineout but if not before now you have.
13 Go to commentsIf someone like Leo Cullen was in O’Gara’s place I don’t hear Boo-ing. It’s not just that La Rochelle has hurt Leinster and O’Gara is their Irish boss. It’s the needle that he brings and the pantomime activity before the game around pretending that Munster were supporting LaRochelle just because O’Gara is from Cork. That’s dividing Irish provinces just to get an advantage for his French Team. He can F*ck right off with that. BOOOOO! (but not while someone is lying injured)
1 Go to commentsDid the highlanders party too hard before the game? They were the pits.
1 Go to commentsWhat a player! Not long until he’s in the England side, surely?
1 Go to commentsHe seems to have the same aura as Marcus Smith - by which I mean he’s consistently judged as if he’s several years younger than he actually is. Mngomezulu has played 24 times for the Stormers. When Pollard was his age he had played 24 times for South Africa! He has more time to develop, but he has also had time to do some developing already, and he hasn’t demonstrated nearly as much talent in that time as one would expect. If he is a generational talent, then it must be a pretty poor generation.
4 Go to commentsThe greatest Springbok coach of all time is entirely on the money. Rassie and Jacques have given the south african public a great few years, but the success of the springbok selection policy will need to be judged in light of what comes next. The poor condition that the provincial system is currently in doesn’t bode well for the next few years of international rugby, and the insane 2026 schedule that the Boks have lined up could also really harm both provincial and international consistency.
16 Go to commentsJake White is a brilliant coach and a master in the press. This is another masterclass in media relations and PR but its also a very narrow view with arguments that dont always hold water. White wants his team to win, he wants the best players in SA and wants his team competitive. You however have to face up to the reality of a poor exchange rate and big clubs with big budgets. SA Rugby cant compete and unless it can find more money SA players will keep leaving regardless of Springbok eligibility and this happened in 2015 - 2017. Also rugby is not cricket. Cricket has 3 formats and T20 cricket is where the money is at. When it comes to club vs country the IPL is king but that wont happen because the international calendar does not clash with the club calendar in rugby. So the argument about rugby going down the same path as cricket is really a non-starter
16 Go to commentsNZ rugby seem not to have learnt anything from professional rugby. Super rugby was dying and SA left before they died with the competition. SA rugby did a u turn on their approach to international players playing overseas and such players are now selected for Bok teams. As much as each country would love to retain their players playing in local competitions, this is the way the world is evolving my friends. Move with it or stay 20 years behind the times. One more thing. NZ rugby hierarchy think they are the big cheese. Take a more humble approach guys. You do not seem to have your players best interests at heart.
3 Go to commentsBeaches? In Cardiff? Where?
1 Go to commentsHe is right , the Crusaders will be a threat. Scott Barrett, ( particularly), Fergus Burke , Codie Taylor, ( from sabbatical) etc due back soon for the Crusaders. There are others like Zach Gallagher too. People can right the Crusaders off, Top 8 , here we come !!
1 Go to commentsWe will always struggle for money to match the other sides but the least the WRU can do is invest properly in Welsh rugby. Too much has been squandered on vanity projects like the hotel and roof walk amongst others which will never see a massive return. Hanging the 4 pro sides out to dry over the last decade is now coming back to bite the WRU financially as well as on the pitch. You reap what you sow.
1 Go to commentsWhat do you get if you cross a doctor with a fish? A plastic sturgeon
14 Go to commentsWhat happened to feleti Kaitu’u? Hasnt played in a while right?
1 Go to commentsGregor I just can’t agree with you. You are trying to find something that just isn’t there. Jordie Barrett has signed until 2028. By the end of that he would have spent probably 11-12 years on Super Rugby and you say he can’t possibly have one season playing somewhere else. It is absurd. What about this scenario, the NZR play hard ball and he decides to leave and play overseas. How would that affect the competition. There seems to be an agenda by certain journalists to push certain agendas and don’t like it when it’s not to their liking. I fully support the NZR on this. Gregor needs to get a life.
3 Go to commentsHope he stays as believe he can do a great job.
1 Go to commentsMake what step up? Manie has a World Cup winner’s medal around his neck and changed the way the Springboks can play. He doesn’t have anything to prove to anyone. The win record of the Boks with him in the team is tremendous. Sacha can be wonderful and I hope he has a very succesful Bok career, but comparing him to Manie in terms of the next Bok flyhalf is very strange. Manie is the incumbent (not the next) and doing pretty incredibly.
4 Go to comments00 😍 U
1 Go to commentsSabbaticals have helped keep NZ’s very best talent in the country on long term deals - this fact has been left out of this article. Much like the articles calling to allow overseas players to be selected, yet can only name one player currently not signed to NZR who would be selected for the ABs. And in the entire history of NZ players leaving to play overseas, literally only 4 or 5 have left in their prime as current ABs. (Piatau, Evans, Hayman, Mo’unga,?) Yes Carter got an injury while playing in France 16 years ago, but he also got a tournament ending injury at the 2011 World Cup while taking mid-week practice kicks at goal. Maybe Jordie gets a season-ending injury while playing in Ireland, maybe he gets one next week against the Brumbies. NZR have many shortcomings, but keeping the very best players in the country and/or available for ABs selection is not one of them. Likewise for workload management - players missing 2 games out of 14 is hardly a big deal in the grand scheme of things. Again let’s use some facts - did it stop the Crusaders winning SR so many times consecutively when during any given week they would be missing 2 of their best players? The whole idea of the sabbatical is to reward your best players who are willing to sign very long term deals with some time to do whatever they want. They are not handed out willy-nilly, and at nowhere near the levels that would somehow devalue Super Rugby. In this particular example JB is locked in with NZR for what will probably (hopefully) be the best years of his career, hard to imagine him not sticking around for a couple more after for a Lions tour and one more world cup. He has the potential to become the most capped AB of all time. A much better outcome than him leaving NZ for a minimum of 3 years at the age of 27, unlikely to ever play for the ABs again, which would be the likely alternative.
3 Go to commentsJake White talks more sense than anything I've read in the last 5 years. Hope someone's listening.
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