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Siya Kolisi reveals alcohol battle leading up to World Cup success

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Springboks captain Siya Kolisi has lifted the lid on his battle with alcohol in the lead-up to South Africa’s triumphant 2019 World Cup campaign.

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Speaking to The Guardian, Kolisi revealed his struggles with alcoholism, which plagued him during his early years in the Springboks and impacted his 2015 World Cup tournament in England, where the Springboks finished third.

“I drank when I was happy or sad, or dealing with something. Drinking was the only way I knew to get through this stuff,” Kolisi said.

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The 30-year-old, who debuted for the Springboks in 2013 and became the team’s first-ever black captain, said his personal demons affected him to the point that his partner – Rachel, who he would marry in 2016 – left the 2015 World Cup a week early.

Kolisi credits his wife with helping him turn his life around by guiding him towards a Christian mentor, Ben Schoeman, who gave the 63-test star a blunt assessment of his situation at the time.

“Siya, you drink a lot, you fool around with women, you go to strip clubs. You post on social media about your faith in Christ, but you’re lying to yourself and everyone else,” Kolisi said Schoeman told him.

With Schoeman’s help, Kolisi stopped his drinking habits, something he said was difficult to break but was life-changing for him and his family.

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“I started opening up to him and we spoke deeply. He told me I needed to stop drinking. It was tough at the beginning but now I don’t miss it,” he told The Guardian.

“I want to encourage people that it’s okay to look for help. Too many people commit suicide out of desperation because they’re too proud to talk to someone else.

“I want to encourage men to speak because they don’t talk to each other. Men don’t open up or want to cry. Men want to look strong at all times. But life is not about that. You can’t carry all that weight because it can break you.”

Kolisi said that he, with the help of Rachel, is now aiming to use his platform for good to help address the issue of gender violence, which he was confronted with in his own household as a child when his mother was a victim of abuse.

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“You win the World Cup and get given a platform,” Kolisi said. “Rachel said: ‘You couldn’t help your mother or your aunt but you can help other women.’

“She was right. Gender violence hurts me even if I am a man. I have my own daughter, my wife and my sister. I would never want them to suffer this violence.”

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Now you are just being a woke, jealous fool. With the way things are run in NZ, no wonder he couldn't make a success there. Now that he is out shining any other New Zealanders, including their star players, now he is bitter and resentful and all sorts of hate speeches against him. That is what the fans like you do. Those in NZ who does have enough sense not to let pride cloud their vision, is all saying the same thing. NZ needs TB. Razor was made out to be a rugby coaching God by the fans, so much so that Foz was treated like the worst piece of shitte. Especially after the Twickenham disaster right before the WC. Ad then he nearly won the WC too with 14 players. As a Saffa the way he handled the media and the pressure leading up to the WC, was just extraordinary and I have gained a lot of respect for that man. Now your so called rugby coaching God managed to lose by an even bigger margin, IN NZ. All Razor does is overplay his players and he will never get the best out of those players, and let's face it, the current crop is good enough to be the best. However, they need an coach they can believe in completely. I don't think the players have bought into his coaching gig. TB was lucky to shake the dust of his boots when he left NZ, because only when he did that, did his career go from strength to strength. He got a WC medal to his name. Might get another if the Boks can keep up the good work. New exciting young talent is set to join soon after the WC as dangerous as SFM and Kolbe. Trust me, he doesn't want the AB's job. He is very happy in SA with the Boks. We score, you lose a great coach. We know quality when we see it, we don't chuck it in the bin like NZRU likes to do. Your coaching God is hanging on by a thread to keep his job🤣🤣🤣🤣

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