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Luke McAlister opens up on the personal challenges behind his unique career
We often hear athletes and coaches discuss sacrifices, moments where individuals have to surrender something in order to progress their sporting careers. It’s something Luke McAlister is more than familiar with.
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The 31-time All Black has had a unique rugby career, splitting his time between New Zealand and Europe well before it was the norm to do so.
While the 39-year-old has no regrets over his decisions, he acknowledges they were challenging and emotional for not just himself but his young family as well.
Speaking on the A Beacon of Hope podcast, McAlister reflected on various occasions in his career when he was faced with difficult decisions, perhaps none more challenging than leaving his first child the day after she was born.
“So I got named in the All Blacks on the Friday,” he said. “For the first time, end-of-year tour, and my daughter was born on the Saturday. I flew out the Sunday for five weeks. It was pretty intense.
“My heart’s with my daughter, my newborn. But, then I’ve got this All Blacks dream and then I’m like far out, tossed up. I’m 21, and my partner at the time, Brooke, she said ‘no way, there’s no way you’re missing the tour. You’re definitely going, we’ll still be here in five weeks.’
“But it wasn’t easy. Had my baby the Saturday, flew out the Sunday. It was tough.”
The podcast is built on the central theme of hope and offers vulnerable conversations, which McAlister certainly delivered.
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The former world U21 Player of the Year went on to offer further insight into what was going on in the background throughout his career.
“I’ve always been a bit different with my career path. I left when I was 24, in the prime of my career, left New Zealand for two years, signed overseas. That was unheard of back then, no one did that.
“It was a big scandal, people that didn’t know me would say ‘oh he’s turned his back on the black jersey, he’s disrespecting us, he’s disrespecting the nation’.
“I didn’t read too much into it, I knew what was coming.
“It was just after the World Cup, we lost the quarter-final. I’d signed before that though.
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“It’s where I grew up, where I went back to – Sale, in England. I don’t know how many games I’d played, maybe 20 or 22 games for the All Blacks at the time and I was just like you know what? I’m in the prime of my career, I don’t want to be one of those All Blacks that would leave when I’m 35.
“I’d rather go to a club when I’m at my best, where I can give my best, I can go to a new culture, new experience and the money’s awesome as well, not going to lie, the money was a huge factor in me leaving but it wasn’t the sole factor.
“I wanted to get out, I wanted to go. There was some stuff happening, I broke up with my partner in 2007, Astyn’s mum. So I was just like I want to go, I want to get away.
“That was pretty hard, I had to leave obviously my daughter and her here. That was quite hard, it wasn’t a great breakup at the time, we’re obviously all good now but back then there was a few teething issues so being away from her was hard.
“But I wouldn’t change anything.
“When you talk about feelings and emotions, I guess, with me, I could definitely hold them inside. I wasn’t one to talk much. Now, I’m different, but back then, I definitely kept things inside. I didn’t want to tell anyone, I didn’t want to burden anyone with my problems or my feelings. But now I’m definitely more open to talking.
“I’ve definitely changed over time, over my rugby career. I’ve been pretty lucky to be able to travel the world doing something that I love.”
Comments on RugbyPass
Good on Clarke for taking on the criticism and addressing his deficiencies, principally his laziness.
2 Go to comments“It is the people’s favourite against the actual favourite. It is the people’s champions against the actual champions. I’m joking, but it’s going to be a fantastic series.” Why did Darcy make that joke knowing it would be used as click bait? Why did RP headline it as a serious comment? Anyway, the tired comment isn’t very astute. SA players may have played more games etc. Darcy over estimated as a pundit.
21 Go to commentsNot sure Frisch will ever make the French team with Depoortère and Costes waiting in the wings to take over from Danty and Fickou.
1 Go to commentsThe Irish are tired and the Boks are old. The test series won't confirm who is best in the world, it will confirm which team needs to pursue the task of rebuilding with the most urgency.
21 Go to commentsGrant, the first time I have seen an article written by you. Maybe I have missed your previous stuff. These days all professional players effectively play a common season so all top players are equally tired, or rested. That is the job of the coaching ticket to build squad depth and juggle resources so players are ‘ fresh’ when the big games come. Possibly Ireland are less inclined to juggle squad compared to Rassie, who is prepared to take the risk to rest players as well as build depth throughout the year so come WC he has a full squad, experienced and rested enough to win 7 games. After all, to win WC you need to get through the tournament and then win the final big 3 games. Ireland should try and build a bit so come final 3 they are ready. So far only played final 1(QF). I am so looking forward to the Irish tour. Hopefully Rassie has enough time to align his guys, as he draws them from across the globe, and not from 2 sides locally( eg Leinster, Munster). No excuses, going to be exciting.
21 Go to commentsIn football, teams get fined and sometimes docked points for deliberately fielding weakened teams yet Leinster can pretty much do as they please with no comebacks. Could it be because Ireland run the URC? Could it be that Ireland run the ERC? Whichever it is, it stinks!!
6 Go to commentsIreland are only the People’s Champions in Irish eyes. The rest of the world do not care for them very much because of attitudes of people like Gordon, Ferris, Best, Jackman…I could go on!!
21 Go to commentsNot sure how Karl Dickson can ever ref a Quins game, he played for the club for 8 years as understudy to Care and is still close friends with half the team
3 Go to commentsAre bookies taking bets on how many times Vunipola's eventual statement will use the term “elders"? My money is on at least 4 times.
4 Go to commentsSo Ireland will be tired, despite having the most rested test squad in the world. They only play tests, champions cup and urc play off games ffs! Case in point; Leinster sent a B squad to SA for their last two games while their first xv rested up and trained at their leisure for the sf vs Saints at the so called ‘neutral venue’ of Croke Park. So tired? Do me a favour… And as for “people’s champions”? Seriously??? Outside of Ireland they are respected for their ability to win 6N. And of course plenty of inconsequential test friendlies without any real pressure. WC ko games when the pressure is white hot? Not so much…
21 Go to commentsSurprising how standing down or benching a player can do wonders for their motivation. Several players this week in that category.
2 Go to commentsHaha lads lads lads, that’s how you have a holiday In Majorca
4 Go to commentshit on Lynagh was defo late and card-worthy. The other 2 are bang on OK. Hurts you at Test level if youre timing is off and the nostrils are flared. Jerry C knew when to lean in on one, Finau just needs to keep his discipline and head straight.
7 Go to commentsSlade was exceptional against Gloucester. Not only was he doing the classic Slade stuff of running amazing lines and timing passes to perfection to put his wingers into space, he was kicking goals, flying off the line smashing people and crashing into rucks like a flanker… his hair even looked on point. 😍
1 Go to commentsThat’s really sad, hope everyone involved is ok. At least he had pants on.
4 Go to commentsTo be fair it was nowhere bear the Leinster first team (for which, btw, Leinster copped nothing like the outrage that Jake White did for sending a rotated team to the UK). But it’s fun to watch the Stormers doing their thing. They are attracting big, diverse crowds of young fans, and deservedly so. Great to see.
1 Go to commentsIt might be legal but he’s sailing pretty close to the wind. Not a lot needs to go wrong for Finau to end up in the bin. Was it late? Not quite, but borderline. High? A couple of CM within the laws, no room for error with that one. Did he wrap the arms? There was a token effort to wrap one arm, the intent was clearly to hit with the shoulder. So yeah, it’s legal, just. But as we all know, a very slight change in the dynamics could easily have him seeing red. Hopefully not when it really matters.
7 Go to commentsCan we also show some love for Tane Edmed’s fantastic draw and pass? Put his body on the line and committed the defender before letting go of that pass. Flawless skill.
7 Go to commentsYou forget this is Rassie Erasmus who is still holding the Springbok keys. Even with Felix Jones orchestrating a really tight RWC SF last year. It still wasn't enough to get England past their particular Springbok Monkey in world cups. The reason is FJ was going off of what they did in 2019 not necessarily adapting to current Springboks. So yes, Australia can get passed England because let's be honest, England have a one track strategy, Springboks do not. Even with rush defense I wouldn't be surprised if Rassie continually tweaks it. Also bear in mind Rassie is happy to sacrifice a few mid year and inter World Cup matches to pin point how opposition plays and how to again tweak strategies to get his Springboks in peak performance for the next World Cup. As much as most teams like to win games in front of them and try to win everything, Rassie always makes sure to learn and train for the greatest showdown International Rugby has to offer. Tbh, most people remember World Cup wins and ignore intermediate losses as a result but will remember also WC losses, Ireland, even if they won games in the interim. So even if games are won against the Springboks, it's likely Rassie is just getting a feel for how opposition is moving and adapt accordingly…in time. For Rassie, a loss is never a loss because he uses it as a chance to learn and improve. Sometimes during a game, again like the England match in last year's Semi Final.
8 Go to commentsDanny don't care. He pretends to care but he don't. He says all this stuff to justify his reasoning but no one can claim that legitimately. He knew exactly what he was doing and wondered if his old team mate would overlook it, which he did. Ref has got to be sidelined or properly trained. It's one thing for refs to move up the ranks but if it was me I would require refs to either have played in different clubs or not at all having the temptation to bias in high stakes games like this. This has got to be stamped out. But then again World Rugby is so destroying the game of rugby in an attempt to be more “safe” and “concussion free”. What they are doing is making it more infuriating for the fans and more difficult for the refs to officiate evenly and consistently. It's fast become Australian Rules football. If guys don't want concussions, they should have played chess. Stop complaining you oldies of the game. When they played the game was vastly heavier hitting than it is now but of course they can't see that.
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